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How do you say “honeymoon” in Swahili?

Dhow picnic

For anyone who hasn’t already heard, Bob and I got married! And with our hard-earned reputation as African travelers on the line, we had to give friends Dan and Linn a run for their money in the competition for most exotic honeymoon. So we headed off to Kenya for a beach-bumming, mango-munching, wildlife-tracking honeymoon safari!

The past nine months in South Africa have been an adventure and a half, with plenty of chances to enjoy the great outdoors, game-spotting, and cross-cultural experiences. But Kenya was something else altogether. Americans who come to South Africa often comment that it didn’t fit their images of what Africa would be like. That’s because all the images you have of Africa are based in Kenya.

This is the country that invented the term safari. Arab traders brought the root word safara – meaning to travel – which Kenyans rendered into Swahili as safari. In Swahili it refers to any trip, but to English-speakers, it means a trip into the African wilderness, sleeping under the stars, enjoying a campfire, and spotting big game among the baobab trees and African bush.

We traveled via Kenyan Airways – thanks, Northwest, for the frequent flier miles – which is pretty definitely the only airline in the world that makes in-flight announcements in Swahili. They even print the little signs letting you know that smoking is prohibited, and life vests are located beneath your seat, in both Swahili and English!

The flight attendants rolled out the special honeymoon treatment for us, with a special captain’s welcome to the honeymooners, Mr. Lee Bishop and Mrs. Roberta Shaver. We had a good giggle over that one, that got even better after two rounds of complimentary champagne. The highlight of the flight into Nairobi, however, was the stunning view of Mount Kenya above the cloud line.

Mount Kenya

We didn’t linger in Nairobi, but headed straight for Kenya’s second largest city, located on the southern coast. Mombasa has been a strategic point for Indian Ocean trading routes for hundreds of years, and its old quarter – located on an island – is rich in history.

Bob and Guide at Fort Jesus

We took a tour of a fort built by the Portuguese in the 17th century, now a museum. The small windows enabled canons to point out at threatening ships in the harbor. The Arabs eventually won the city and did some redecorating to the fort, but the Portuguese name – Fort Jesus – has stuck.

Fort Jesus Canon Hole

Next we took a brief walking tour through the town. There’s a really amazing cultural geography to the city, with historically Arab, African Christian, and African Muslim neighborhoods, and some great mosques and churches. Mombasa has this incredible cosmopolitan vibe to it, a city where cultures have rubbed shoulders since before New York City even existed.  With folks of all colors walking the streets in modern clothing, traditional kanga wraps, even full Saudi-style black cloaks, it’s the sort of place where everyone fits in.

Dhow within a dhow

Next we launched for a incredibly romantic lunchtime cruise in a sailing restaurant. Our boat – a traditional dhow- was decked out with white tablecloths and a live band. They offer a choice between the seafood platter or a nice steak, but how could anyone pass up the ocean fare while in Mombasa? It was a perfect beginning to a honeymoon every bit as delicious as the lobster, crab, calamari, and tilapia on which we dined.  If you’re ever in Mombasa, we definitely recommend the Tamarind Dhow.

Wishing we could have stayed longer in Mombasa, but eager to check in at our resort and hit the pool before dinner, we grabbed a matatu and headed up the coast two hours to the beach resort town of Malindi.  I’ll catch you up on the rest of the honeymoon when our flight lands in Indianapolis… we’re off the airport now!


Welcome, Baby Kiera!

Kiera ScottOne of my favorite things to post is pictures of my friends’ new babies! In the past few months, we’ve already welcomed two precious baby boys, Hassan and Evan.

But I’ve been a bit behind in heralding the newest arrival… her bad luck to be born in the last of only five months I had to plan our wedding!

She is Kiera Scott Bishop, born April 14th, to my cousin Matt Bishop and his wife Larissa.

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Also Showing…

Since so many folks are visiting our blog for the first time to see our wedding photos, I thought I would post links to a few other gautango highlights.

These are our most popular posts from our time in South Africa…

Our First ThanksgivingBob and Lea On SafariOur EngagementChristmas in AfricaBob Runs a MarathonOur Wedding PhotosMore Wedding Photos

Lea’s Human Rights Work
Siyakhuluma, or, Lea Tries to Speak ZuluInside the Inner CityPhoto of Madonna and ChildVicarious TraumaHuge Legal Victory

Bob’s Volunteer Work
Coffee for Africa, Africa for CoffeeBob’s First Day of SchoolWhat’s Wrong with South Africa’s SchoolsSchools & The Sweets Solution

Commentary on South Africa
The New Apartheid
Human Rights and the 2010 World CupIs South African Crime Really So Bad?Bugs are Bigger in Africa

Tribute to My Mom

Lea & LuciaToday is my mother’s birthday!

I thought a nice way to mark this auspicious date would be with a special post in her honor.

Let’s face it, I owe my mom a lot. Beyond the obvious things – my life, my good looks, and being our blog’s most loyal reader – she managed to teach me more than a few character lessons as well.

I’m certainly not the first person to note that Lucia Bishop is a remarkable woman.

Growing up, I simply got used to gushing compliments from friends, neighbors, and fellow church members about my mother’s kindness, patience, and amazing capacity to give of herself for others.

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Wedding Album – Prelude


Yesterday, 26 June 2007, marked our one month anniversary! Which I think is a perfect occasion to pull out all the wedding photos I’ve been sifting through. Here is the story of our wedding, in 37 pictures…

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Wedding Album – Ceremony

ring placing

The ceremony was absolutely wonderful.  Bob and I had spent a lot of time thinking through the words and rituals, and the whole event felt just perfect.  So moving!

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Huge legal victory!!!

Last Thursday I blogged about the trip Bob and I were planning, to Durban. I titled the post A Second Chance, because the last time we tried this trip, our car broke down halfway there, and we never made it to the beach.

But for me it was also a second chance in another sense. Three months ago, I had at work. A CALS litigation project I had done a lot of work on suddenly fell apart, and the families I was trying to help ended up on the street.

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